Yep, I’m late with this again!!! I know, I know, I suck! I don’t even really have an excuse! These last 2-3 weeks have gone by in a total blur! If you missed last month’s update check it out
Anyway, better late then never (again) here is my update on Arthur and Freddie June 2017
Arthur at 4 years old
Aggghhhhh it’s here, it’s happened, he’s 4! I do cringe when I read the cliches from everyone (including myself) but they are all true, the ‘how did this happen’ ‘it’s gone so quick’ etc etc, it is seriously ALL TRUE!! I do feel like he was a baby just yesterday and now he’s a full blown 4 year old!
Okay, i’ll stop with the cliche’s for now (but be warned Freddie’s birthday is in August and you WILL hear them all over again!).
Arthur has really changed this month in so many ways. He’s looking so grown up now.
Now obviously, he still has tantrums about things and he still throws strops about things like having to eat dinner instead of sweets and all that stuff. But, he asks ‘why’ and is interested in your response. I guess it’s coming down to his speech and understanding improving further still. We can have proper conversations and I love it. I think back to when I started having concerns about his speech, when he was 2 (if you read that note me trying to cover up my concerns!!!), and he has come on such an incredible amount. We really couldn’t be prouder of him for that.
Arthur is waking up at ridiculous times at the moment. He has always been an early riser, but he’s been waking before 5 the last week or so. I’m hoping that it’s a hangover of all the birthday excitement and it passes soon!
He is enjoying school at the moment, and is barely taking a second to say goodbye to me at the door! I think he’s going to love the long school holidays though, it’s less than 3 weeks now until they start!
I couldn’t not include a little section about Arthur’s 4th birthday party in this update! It is the first year where he has really got the idea of a birthday party. With being at school, he’s got friends that he wanted to invite. Actually, he invited the whole class. I love that he wanted to invite everyone, even those that he doesn’t particularly have a good relationship with. I hope he is always so inclusive of everyone!!
In the end we had around 10 kids come and that was a really nice number. We were really lucky with the weather, it wasn’t too hot and really overcast making it perfect for all the kids playing outside!
He also invited our neighbours who he’s known since he was only a few weeks old, our best friends (but totally his best friends too!)!
We borrowed a little bouncy castle off a friend and we had the waterslide which mum and dad bought out for the boys. They went down a storm! We had planned to do some games with the kids but they were having so much fun we just kinda left them too it!
Anyway, he told me he wanted a ‘road cake’ (i don’t know either) and then he decided on a farm cake. I tried to be all pinterest-y but as usual, it didn’t really turn out that way! I was excited to find cadbury’s fingers to put round the edge, but they had all melted and stuck together so they didn’t really look so pretty by the time i got them on the cake #islandproblems! Anyway, it still tasted good and Arthur was delighted with it!
I decided right from the offset I wasn’t going to pretend to try and do any healthy food, it was going to be good old fashioned ‘proper’ party food. Triangle sandwiches (cheese and ham, so thats kinda healthy I guess!?), cupcakes, cookies, crisps, marshmallows with extra glittery sugar on, the lot!!
He had an amazing party and I was so proud of how all the kids behaved! I was a little nervous of how Arthur would cope with everyone playing with his toys but he was great! Everyone seemed to have a great time, and I’m sure its something he will remember forever!! It’s definitely a day we will remember, our little guys first proper birthday party!!
Freddie at 22 months old
This boy! He is something else let me tell you!!! So stubborn (goodness knows where that comes from…..!), SO independent, and so bloody clever! To say he keeps me on my toes is an understatement!!!
He is being an insanely fussy eater right now and it drives me nuts! The mornings are especially bad, he only wants cookies, sometimes I can pacify him with toast, if not, it’s giant tantrums all morning until he has a snack around 9-10ish. It’s safe to say he’s not a morning person, but when he sleeps until at least 7 every day I can’t really complain too much – now i just need him to have a word with Arthur about 5am wake ups!!
I’ve had a mild attempt at potty training this month, he’s showing lots of the ready signs but I’ll say to him do you need a wee ‘NO’ and then he will look down and wee. I’ll sit him on the potty he will get up and then ‘wee’ and tell me ‘wee wee’!!! I think this may be more of a battle than we had with Arthur!! I’ll try again in the holidays when we are not having to go in and out for the school run, and I’ll have Mark to help!!
Freddie is talking SO much and is so outgoing. He loves saying ‘bye, see you’ whenever we leave anywhere! He loves talking about Arthur and Daddy as well as pretty much anything else around him.
My favourite thing about Freddie at the moment is how cuddly he is. It’s nice for Mark and I that he wants to cuddle us, especially when he is having his milk! It’s a nice reminder that he does still need and love us!!!
Still the best of friends, Arthur and Freddie really love doing everything together. They are both huge Daddy fans right now too. It’s super cute to see how excited they are when he gets home from work. Freddie spends a lot of his day telling me Daddy is at work and Arthur always wants Daddy to play toys with him. I’d say I felt a bit neglected, but I still get plenty of love too!!
Ive started to see glimpses of the trouble these two are going to get into together, there’s some serious mischief planning going on already!
Arthur and Freddie April 2017
Its been a month, well yes it has been over a month. But I thought I’d check back in with an update on the boys. Last month’s update is here if you want a read
Its been a crazy month, Mark has been super busy in school, both of the boys were poorly for a couple of weeks. We are definitely all very happy the Easter holidays have just started here nd can catch up on some much needed down time.
Arthur, aged 3 years and 9 months
Being poorly came at a bad time as his class had just started practicing for their school show. By the time he got back into school he just wasn’t up for it at all. His class were going to be doing magic tricks and Arthur loved his little trick of making a ball disappear. He just was not cool with the idea of getting up on the stage, or being part of a larger production. He even stopped wanting to go into school at all.
The day of the show came and Arthur had said he wanted to do it, I took him down for it and he got really scared and upset and didn’t even want to watch the show. I felt so sad for him that evening. It was a really tough parenting experience trying to figure out the boundaries of how far you should be encouraging and pushing them out of their comfort zone.
The next day in school he was happy as could be and they started preparing for his sports day.
I couldn’t believe that he was going to join in but he had an absolutely fantastic time – he did all the races and he really enjoyed it. He was super proud of his medal at the end too.
Arthur has also started to swim out of his depth! We are so proud of the confidence he’s showing in the water! He loves swimming, and its amazing that he’s now taken the step to go into the deep too!! Of course, this does mean we are on extra alert watching him now but its a huge achievement!!
He has developed some serious sass in this last month, we are getting plenty of ‘I don’t like you’ and ‘This is Rubbish’. All in all though he’s still bloody cute most of the time – and still never forgets a please and a thank you!
Freddie aged 21 months
Freddie was poorly at the same time as Arthur. I was starting to worry because he really wasn’t eating much at all. Luckily, he has bounced back and is eating pretty well again. He does have a serious sweet tooth though.
It didn’t take him long for the little bit of shyness to break down with my Mum and Dad. He is just as besotted with them as Arthur is. They couldn’t believe how strong a character he is. Most of our Skype calls are taken up with Arthur, so it was really nice for them to get a chance to have some time with Freddie while Arthur was at school. He certainly holds his own when they are together too!
Freddie has lots of words now, most of which are related to the Ocean! Fish, Whale, Shark, tocto (Octopus), Boat are all favourites. He also has started to say Bye to things, mostly “bye fish” and “bye tree”
He loves ‘shooing’ birds, pointing out geckos, bugs, birds, cats, dogs and anything else he can find! He’d spend all day every day outside if he could. A true island boy!
Freddie is pretty sassy too. He knows when he’s doing something he shouldn’t and gives a huge grin after! I think we are in for some trouble with him as he gets older!
When the boys were sick I thought I would have a total nightmare with both of them at home. I was really lucky that despite being poorly, they continued to be great together.
Then when my parents arrived I was certain that Arthur would be really possessive of them and not give Freddie a look in. He yet again pleasantly surprised me.
Freddie thinks Arthur is the best and wants to be doing everything his big brother is doing. Arthur is still more than happy with having Freddie join in on his games too which makes me so happy!!
I took this picture after Arthur’s sports day. There is lots about it that isn’t ‘picture perfect’. Arthur is still in his sports kit, Freddie doesn’t have shorts on, and of course neither are looking at the camera. But, I still love it!!!
We have one more week of Easter holidays together. After that, its back to school for Arthur and work for Mark. I’m enjoying every second of us being all together before the madness of school starts up again!
I’ll be back next month with another update!
Arthur and Freddie March 2017
It has been far too long since I’ve written a post about Arthur and Freddie.
I have no idea why I stopped doing their monthly updates because I absolutely loved it. At the start of the year I promised myself that I would start writing them again. Its now March and I haven’t done so.
However, I’m changing that today! So here is a little post about Arthur and Freddie, as they are, right now!!
Arthur, aged 3years and 8months
This boy, is unbelievable right now. I can not explain how proud I am of Arthur at the moment. The thing that makes me most proud of Arthur right now has to be his manners. He ALWAYS remembers his please and thank you’s and I love that.
He is always so happy to help whenever he can, and even when he can’t he’s right there wanting to! He’s definitely is ready to start getting involved with some projects at home
We are working on building up his attention span because it can be pretty short. We are getting some great support from school with this.
Arthur’s speech has come on immeasurably since he started school, every day he surprises me with something new. I’m not exaggerating when I say that there has been real progress on a weekly basis. His teacher and all our friends and family have noticed it and it is a big relief. Its been something I have chosen not to speak about on here but it has been a big worry for us all. There is still progress to be made but we are all delighted with the progress he has made so far!!
Arthur is building some lovely friendships at the moment and its so nice to see. There are a couple of kids in his class who he is particularly fond of and he is so happy to see them every morning. He is also so lucky to have the friendships of all mine and Mark’s friends too, they love him and look out for him so much. Our ‘expat family’ is something I am eternally grateful for being so far away from our own!
A huge thing for Arthur in this last month is that he has all of a sudden turned into a full on fish! He has ALWAYS loved the water but now, not only is he going underwater, he is actually starting to swim too! All by himself, he decided he was ready!
Freddie aged 19 months
Where to start with Freddie!!! He is honestly hilarious. I can’t believe how much he genuinely cracks me up on a daily basis.
At 19 months he is pretty sure he can do everything his brother can and theres not a lot thats going to stop him! He is fearless, and oh so determined. Freddie’s so happy every day when we get Arthur from school, although dragging him away when we drop him off in the morning is becoming a challenge – he loves going into class with ‘the big kids’.
This month Freddie was sick for almost a week. He had a horrible fever, that seemed to spike in the afternoon. Also, he was eating very little the whole time. I think I worried about this more than normal as when he had his 18month injection he hadn’t really gained any weight. Now, rational me knows that they go through phases of this. But, panic-y worrying about being judged by everyone me went into a bit of a meltdown over this! He is eating again now, although he is becoming really picky which is SO annoying!!
We can’t get over how stroppy he can be. I know time puts rose tinted glasses on things but I am sure he throws bigger, and much longer tantrums then Arthur did at this age. Another sign of just how strong willed Freddie is.
My favourite thing about Freddie right now is how, when he’s tired, he comes and lies down over his legs or plops himself onto the bed or any soft object around. Then he wants me to tickle his back. Its so cute, he goes all super cuddly and lovely!
Freddie is starting to pick up quite a few words. ‘No’ is a definite favourite. He says Mummy a lot and also, ‘fish’ ‘shark’ and ‘whale’ in true island boy fashion!
Together, Arthur and Freddie are becoming a real team. They still love to be in each others company and mostly wants the other to be involved with whatever they are doing. I’m starting to notice that if one is upset and having a cuddle with me, the other is all of a sudden upset and wants the same too. Freddie is really copying things Arthur is doing, and saying too.
Arthur really looks out for Freddie. The other day we had an interesting incident where Arthur pushed Freddie but it was because he was getting him away from the oven (not on) that he was trying to touch. We were really happy that Arthur was protecting Freddie but had to at the same time tell him that he shouldn’t have pushed him!
Freddie is 11 months old! We are officially on coutdown to having a 1 year old!
We are now pretty settled in to life with Arthur being at school, Freddie is still having a two hour nap in the mornings but he then has time that’s just me and him!
I’m so happy to have some special one on one time with Freddie. I feel like I’m getting to know a whole other side to him and it’s really amazing. He seems to be relishing the mama time too.
One unfortunate side effect of Arthur starting school is the bugs! Poor Freddie already had a snotty nose once and is now struggling with a cold again. This time it’s hit him at the same time as a tooth coming through so it’s been a particularly tough time for us all!
This tooth popping through brings him up to 7 pearly whites, 4 up top and 3 on the bottom. I think number 8 is not so far behind too!
Despite being poorly again, Freddie’s sleep has been much better this month. He’s back to sleeping through consistently again at night. Nap times have occasionally been a little disturbed, but if his morning nap has been short then he tends to make it up in his afternoon nap.
Along with great sleep, Freddie is a very impressive eater! This kid seriously loves his food!! It is unbelievable the amount of food he can put away!
This month we have really noticed Freddie starting to engage and be happy interested in the stories we read at bed time. I hope he loves stories as much as Arthur does!
Freddie is still the ultimate charmer, and people person. He loves attention and is not shy of strangers, he is more than happy to give a big smile to anyone he meets!
We are about to head off to the UK and I know he’s going to make his grandparents very very happy!!
Next month our tiny little guy will be 1. I should probably stop referring to him as tiny, but I’m not quite ready to do that, just yet!!
Freddie is 10 months old!
This little guy is most definitely becoming his own person this month. He’s started to assert himself more and more. He most certainly is not a baby any more (cue sobbing from this mama!!!)
Freddie is now walking round all the furniture like a little pro! We’ve had plenty of bangs and bumps though, but luckily nothing as bad as we had last month!
He is so chatty now, he loves to let us know how he’s feeling, particularly if he’s not happy about something!! We have a most definite ‘Mama’ happening now which is so nice, although he generally uses it when he’s upset about something and wants my attention!
There’s been a pretty big shift in the household dynamic this month with Arthur starting school. It’s the first time ever that Freddie and I have had any real consistent time just the two of us; he’s most definitely lapping it up! We get back from dropping Arthur into school and we have been going for walks, reading stories and generally just having a nice time together!
In the last week Freddie picked up his first cold. This can’t be a coincidence that it happens to be just after Arthur started school! It’s been tough, he’s not slept well and has been a bit of a grump with it. It’s been really hard as he’s always been so laid back. He’s been sure to still give plenty of smiles to everyone at school though!
His grumps have caused him to be a little less tolerant of Arthur’s sometimes over-zealous affection which is kinda sad but maybe good to show Arthur that Freddie is not his dolly!!
Luckily Freddie is bouncing back well from his cold, and it’s nice to have our happy boy back again!
Our little teeny tiny Freddie is 9 months old!!
He really isn’t so teeny tiny any more but its a name that has definitely stuck for him, I’ll probably always call him that now, poor thing!!!
Freddie has well and truly mastered crawling this month, I can’t believe how fast he is! Its definitely making things a lot more challenging, especially when trying to keep an eye on Arthur as well.
He’s starting to cruise around the furniture a little bit now too, although he does still get upset trying to do it sometimes!
I think this month we will see Freddie being able to stand on his own, he’s definitely starting to try it for a couple of seconds here and there.
With Freddie being so keen to get around these days, bumps and bangs are coming thick and fast! We even had to do a trip to hospital after he got a nasty cut just above his eye from faceplanting the step into the shower. He was so very brave, but it looked nasty so wanted to get him checked out. No concussion or anything which was my main concern, but he did have to have a stitch in. Apparently they do not have butterfly stitches here in Seychelles, so it had to be a proper needle and thread stitch….no dissolvable stitches either so we had to go back to have it removed a week later my poor little guy. Seeing him in so much pain as they did it was horrendous; we had to pin him down, looking back on it still makes me feel sick!
It has healed up very nicely though, and is already not very obvious which we are really thankful for!
A big thing for our little guy this month is that he is now in his own room. Well, actually we moved rooms and left him where he was, but you know what i mean! I remember when Arthur went into his own room and I had that exact same feeling of worry, sadness and separation. It didn’t take long for it to feel normal though and once I realised that I could definitely hear him when he woke up I was fine!
For me, the biggest thing that has happened this month – totally selfishly, is that Freddie is now sleeping through the night WOHOOOOO!! It’s been about 2 weeks now. I don’t think that its a coincidence that it has come around the time we moved rooms. It was the same with Arthur.
This does also mean that I have now finished breastfeeding. Like with Arthur though I kind of like that it happened like this, it’s been stopped by Freddie not by me!
Freddie has 2 bottles of formula a day now one first thing in the morning and one before bed. He’s eating three meals a day, and he really is eating too! This boy can put a serious amount of food away, its impressive! He’s got 5 teeth now (3 on top two on the bottom) and he’s definitely eating better as a result of it!
He continues to be the happiest little thing, and Arthur is definitely still the one to make him smile the most! We are getting the 5 o’clock grumps though aka the witching hour!! As soon as dinner is in front of him though he’s back to being happy again!
Freddie is 8 months old!
This has been a BIG BIG month for my tiny one!
He has a tooth!! Woohoo, I was genuinely starting to get concerned that he was never going to get any!! I had been secretly googling about it like the crazy mama I tend to be with this sort of thing!! The first tooth to come through was on the bottom the left front one (there’s obviously a proper name for it but I’m sure you know what I mean) the one next to it is on its way as are the top front two!
He has started crawling!! This is big! He is getting really good on the bed, he gets up on his knees and makes really quick progress; on the floor he’s not as slick looking but does make progress. All our floors are tiled so crawling must be easier for him on the bed.
Freddie is starting to pull himself up to standing! Eeek, my little guy looks far to small to me to be doing this! He pulled himself up in his cot the other day (of course, I missed him actually doing it I just walked in to see him stood there looking all proud of himself!!) He also pulls himself up holding on to our hands, or clambers up to standing if we are sat with him on the sofa!
He definitely wants to be walking too, he gets around in his baby walker really well and will take steps when we hold his hands. SCARY! Arthur started walking at 9-10 months so I guess I shouldn’t be surprised but I’m so not ready for it!!
With both his crawling and his standing he gets himself on such a mission, he is a really determined little guy it’s amazing to watch, I’m not sure where he gets his stubbornness from………! When he gets done what he wants to do is little face lights up so much, you can see how proud he is that he’s done it!
Another great first for Freddie this month is he had his first holiday, and what a holiday! We went to silhouette island and stayed at the Hilton Labriz. It was my 30th birthday present (although that’s not until the 15th!) It was amazing, I’ll write a post all about it soon! Little Freddie has no idea how lucky he is to have had his first holiday in such an amazing location, he definitely enjoyed it all though, despite the fact he was struggling so much with teething.
This month we have also switched almost exclusively to formula. He was becoming less and less interested in breastfeeding and I was becoming more and more desperate for him to sleep better at night (I am connecting the two as when I switched to formula with Arthur his sleep dramatically improved). Now I am only feeding Freddie at night and he’s having three bottles of formula during the day. I had been feeding him on the first feed of the morning up until the middle of last week. The day I switched that feed to bottle, Freddie woke only once at night and has continued to do so. I’m hoping it won’t be long until he’s going right through!
Mark is back at work this week so after a nice Easter break its time to get back into proper routine again. Mark has absolutely loved having more time with Freddie and Freddie has definitely enjoyed getting to spend more time with his Daddy!
Freddie is still loving Arthur, he really does want to be doing what he does, it’s so cute!
With so many changes for this little guy in one month it’s reminded me why I am so happy I have this blog, I love that we will be able to look back on this one say and see how much happened in such a short space of time!