My Expat Family 26

Hello and welcome to My Expat Family 26, the twenty sixth  ‘My Expat Family’ blog link up in the series

If you are new to the link up you might want to have a read of how My Expat Family started!

 If you missed the last link up take a look there are some great posts to read!
How to join in:
  • You can start to link your posts from Thursday 10th November and I’ll leave the link up open until Sunday night.
  • As with all blog link ups they work best when the love is shared around, please do read, comment on and share as many of the other posts linked up as you can!
  • Please add the My Expat Family link up badge to the post you are sharing by copying and pasting the code from the box below into your post.
  • Tweet me the link to your post (@seychellesmama) and I’ll retweet for you as well!
  • I look forward to reading all about your expat family! Remember old and new posts are welcome!
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My Expat Family 25

Hello and welcome to My Expat Family 25, the twenty fifth  ‘My Expat Family’ blog link up in the series

If you are new to the link up you might want to have a read of how My Expat Family started!

You may have noticed I’ve been absent for a little while, it wasn’t a planned break but I’m back and raring to go!  If you missed the last link up take a look there are loads of great posts to read!
How to join in:
  • You can start to link your posts from Thursday 13th October and I’ll leave the link up open until Sunday night.
  • As with all blog link ups they work best when the love is shared around, please do read, comment on and share as many of the other posts linked up as you can!
  • Please add the My Expat Family link up badge to the post you are sharing by copying and pasting the code from the box below into your post.
  • Tweet me the link to your post (@seychellesmama) and I’ll retweet for you as well!
  • I look forward to reading all about your expat family! Remember old and new posts are welcome!
  • Don’t forget you can also find us on Pinterest!  Check out and join the My Expat Family Pinterest board

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Knocked Up Abroad Again: Baby bumps, twists, and turns around the globe

You may remember me telling you that I was involved in the writing of the fantastic book Knocked Up Abroad, well I’m really excited to tell you that there is a follow up book that has just been released!  I thought I’d share a little about the book.  I’m not in this one but there are some fantastic people with some amazing stories involved!

Read on to hear about Knocked Up Abroad Again, the contributors and how you can get your hands on a copy!

knocked up abroad again launch

What is Knocked Up Abroad Again about?

Knocked Up Abroad Again is the second anthology in the Knocked Up Abroad series, and features stories from 25 different countries as written from the diverse perspectives of 26 women. Each mother, with her unique voice and from her perspective, describes the highs and lows of motherhood as she straddles the distance between what was once familiar with the reality of the challenges posed by her foreign environment.

This heartwarming, sometimes hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking collection of stories illustrates that the more we see, the more we learn about ourselves as human beings.
The adventuresome spirit of someone who leaves their home country is carried into how they end up expanding their family. Knocked Up Abroad Again: Baby bumps, twists, and turns around the globe will take readers on an exciting journey and will keep both experienced travelers and those who prefer to explore from the comfort of their couch entertained and wanting more.

Knocked Up Abroad Again provides a glimpse of the wide range of experiences women face when giving birth and raising their children in a foreign culture, language, and environment. Regardless of the cultural or medical approach, parents everywhere in the world worry about the same thing: the health of their unborn baby. In each of the unique stories in Knocked Up Abroad Again, the concepts of family and love translate into every language and are uniquely celebrated around the world.

Knocked Up Abroad Again: Baby bumps, twists, and turns is currently available only on Kickstarter in paperback and ebook formats.

About The Contributors

knocked up abroad again book contributors

The contributors of Knocked Up Abroad Again are all talented writers whose essays can be found on The Wall Street Journal, The Huffington Post, The Washington Post, Babble, Scary Mommy, ParentCo, Salon, BLUNTMoms, Mamalode, and more. They have tapped into emotional depths to bring readers their personal pregnancy, miscarriage, birth, and parenting stories while living in a foreign country.

About The Editor And Contributing Author

knocked up abroad again editor and contributor lisa ferland

Lisa Ferland is a US citizen who has lived abroad in Sweden since 2012, working as a writer, editor, publisher, and public health consultant. She is currently raising a Lego lover and a Pippi Longstocking fanatic who enjoy behaving like Swedish children with the added bonus of American Thanksgiving holidays.

The Launch

Available only on Kickstarter: http://bit.ly/knockedupabroadagain
Dates: September 19—October 19, 2016
Website: knockedupabroad.eu

 

Knocked Up Abroad Again Kickstarter Video

 

Knocked Up Abroad Again Book Trailer

 

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My Expat Family 24

Hello and welcome to My Expat Family 24 the 2 year anniversary of ‘My Expat Family’ blog link up.

A big thank you to everyone who linked up last month if you missed it take a look there are lots of fab posts there to read! !

An extra thank you for continuing to link up for the past 2 YEARS!!!  I have honestly absolutely loved getting to know you all and your blogs through the my expat family link up and I hope that you all continue to enjoy joining in too!

Please add the link up badge to the post you are linking by copying and pasting the code from the box below into your post so that people can navigate back to the link up easily!

You can start to link your posts from Thursday 12th March and I’ll leave the link up open until Sunday night.

As with all blog link ups they work best when the love is shared around, please do read and comment on as many of the other posts linked up as you can!

Tweet me the link (@seychellesmama) and I’ll retweet for you as well!

I look forward to reading all about your expat family! Remember old and new posts are welcome!

Don’t forget you can also find us on Pinterest!  Check out and join the My Expat Family Pinterest board

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My Expat Family 23

Hello and welcome to My Expat Family 23 the twenty third ‘My Expat Family’ blog link up.

A a big thank you to everyone who linked up last month if you missed it take a look there are lots of fab posts there to read!! I hope you enjoy reading the posts as much as I do! 

Please add the link up badge to the post you are linking by copying and pasting the code from the box below into your post so that people can navigate back to the link up easily!

You can start to link your posts from Thursday 14th June and I’ll leave the link up open until Sunday night.

As with all blog link ups they work best when the love is shared around, please do read and comment on as many of the other posts linked up as you can!

Tweet me the link (@seychellesmama) and I’ll retweet for you as well!

I look forward to reading all about your expat family! Remember old and new posts are welcome!

Don’t forget you can also find us on Pinterest!  Check out and join the My Expat Family Pinterest board

Follow Seychellesmama’s board My expat family blog link up on Pinterest.

 

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My Expat Family 21

Hello and welcome to My Expat Family 21 the twenty first ‘My Expat Family’ blog link up.

A a big thank you to everyone who linked up last month if you missed it take a look there are lots of fab posts there to read! I hope you enjoy reading the posts as much as I do! 

Please add the link up badge to the post you are linking by copying and pasting the code from the box below into your post so that people can navigate back to the link up easily!

You can start to link your posts from Thursday 14th April and I’ll leave the link up open until Sunday night.

As with all blog link ups they work best when the love is shared around, please do read and comment on as many of the other posts linked up as you can!

Tweet me the link (@seychellesmama) and I’ll retweet for you as well!

I look forward to reading all about your expat family! Remember old and new posts are welcome!

Don’t forget you can also find us on Pinterest!  Check out and join the My Expat Family Pinterest board

Follow Seychellesmama’s board My expat family blog link up on Pinterest.

 

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Expat family guilt

Expat life can be AMAZING, but there are times, when expat life can be tough.  I think adding children into that mix can make the highs and lows even more extreme.
 

Expat family guilt

Without doubt we are really happy with our choice to have and live with our boys abroad; if you’re a regular reader of my blog I think that’s pretty obvious to see.  We love the life that we have here.

Expat Family guilt

We are lucky that we don’t really get external guilt put on to us by our families, its just the guilt we put on ourselves!  I know that some people’s families don’t hide their displeasure or disapproval at the expat life!

But the days when it is hard, it really is hard.  Well often it’s not even days, but moments, when the expat family guilt kicks in.

Moments where the difference in timezones mean I can’t just pick up the call for a chat.

Moments where our restricted internet means I can’t just video call if the boys are doing something fun!

Times where I’d love to send the boys off for an afternoon to spend time with their grandparents (and give me an afternoon off!!)

Times when I feel truly awful for how much our family is missing out on with the boys growing up so fast.

This month I’ve been feeling some serious expat guilt.  I think it comes from Arthur getting older and being able to communicate more.  I’m pretty sure that our upcoming trip to the UK this summer is  having an impact on it too.

It hit me really badly the other day when after a Skype chat with my Mum.  Arthur got really upset and said “see nana please mama.”  I can’t express how awful I felt.  I would have loved more than anything at that moment to be able to pop round to visit her so Arthur could see his Nana.

Arthur really likes planes and so I tell him whenever we send something to the UK or someone has sent something to us how it has been put on a plane.

I think he’s starting to comprehend that our family doesn’t live close by.  That we can’t just go and see them whenever we want.  When he asked to “see nana” the other day, it made me realise that his understanding is more than I had given him credit for.

The moments may be fleeting, often they are just thoughts that are coming to the forefront of my mind.  But it’s undeniable.  Expat family guilt is real.  The best way I have found to deal with it is to take advantage of something that you couldn’t do at ‘home’.  For us that can be something as simple as getting out in the garden and enjoying some sun for instant gratification, or take a walk to the beach or the pool.  Even just looking at some pictures of the boys and appreciating what opportunities they get here that they wouldn’t get elsewhere.

How do you do deal with your expat family guilt?

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