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I wrote a little diary while I was in hospital having Freddie, so I thought I’d share it on the blog!!
I’ll start off with part one, my admission into hospital the day before my Caesarian.
Hospital Diary part 1:
This morning at 10am I came to hospital for admission.
The maternity ward has been moved up a floor since when I had Arthur. It’s not perfect by any means but it’s a lot better. There is air con, and the walls are A LOT fresher.
I was taken to a little room with Mark and had the monitor strapped to me for around half an hour. The view from the window was lovely, we were looking right out onto the botanical gardens!
The nurse didn’t really look at the graph when it was finished, anyway it was pretty unreadable as the machine was pretty much just chewing up the paper!!
I was asked a few questions about my health and then came the question on religion! I said I had none, the nurse seemed ok with this but then pointed at me and said “but you believe in God right!?” Cue me feeling very awkward “ummmm no……sorry” He didn’t say anything. We’ve been here before, everyone is religious in the Seychelles, mostly catholic, and no one can understand that we are not.
The nurse disappeared off for a little while and I was then taken to what I can only describe as a waiting room for women waiting to have their babies.
I remember how bored I was last time on this day when I had Arthur.
I’m sure it’s dragged even more this time, I passed the time by doing a cross stitch I’ve been meaning to do forever! My plan was that I would really make the most of this time alone and prep lots of blog posts (no internet!!) as its a rarity and soon it will be even more so, but I’m feeling nervous and anxious and not very motivated to do anything. Writing this is helping my nerves though!
Last time I was in a room by myself all day, this time the room has been full on and off all day. There’s three other women who have been here since I have and two other women have come and gone, not sure where they certainly weren’t in final stages of labour and weren’t prepped for surgery or anything!
I remember that it was hot in the room last time but I am so relieved there is air con now!! There’s no nice view in this room, we are looking out on the back of the building and onto another hospital building, the space between the two frankly looks like a bit of a dumping ground!
I’ve been told I can eat and drink until midnight. I’ve also been told that the anaesthetist will be round to see me at some point this evening.
Mark, his Mum and Arthur came to visit for a couple hours this afternoon. Apparently Arthur had been as good as gold all day but it was lovely to see how excited he was to see me when he got here! We gave him his Pirate Pete I’m a new big brother
book to read while I’m in hospital! He read it at bed time with daddy and loved it.
The rest of the day was very dull! I was told the anaesthetist would come and see me at some point, that never happened!
Midwives came to do their last checks at about 11 so got to sleep sometime after that. My sleep, unsurprisingly was very broken after all the next day I’d be having our second baby!!!
I’ve had a lot of pregnancy ‘guilt’ this time around, fueled entirely by my worry for how Arthur would cope, firstly being away from me for a few days which he never has been before and secondly how he would deal with the huge change becoming a brother would entail.
I realise that it sounds sort of ridiculous to worry so much about how Arthur will ‘cope’ without me. I’ll be honest, I think it’s just as much a sadness for me to be away from him!!
Soon I’ll share my hospital diary part 2 aka Freddie’s birth story!!
I’m 36 weeks pregnant! If you missed last week take a look at my 35 week update
Weight: 66kg (eeek well and truly over the 10 stone mark now!!)
Fundal measurement: ooops forgot this one!
Estimated baby weight from scan: 2.4kg
Here’s me this week
Hurrah, Mark has finished work!!! It has been amazing having him home! We have made big progress in getting organised for the arrival of our little man.
We are getting so excited now, and seeing all the little clothes washed and ready for him to wear has really made it all feel real (about time!)
As you can see from my measurements I’m now over 10 stone so I’ve put about 2 stone on in total so far. I’m not worried about it, I’m not going to do any reading about whether this is “normal” or “too much” I don’t care right now. I can worry about it afterwards!
My hands are really swollen now and are pretty hideous, think baseball mits! The last couple of nights my feet have been swollen by the end of the day too, we went to a friends for dinner and I couldn’t get my shoes back on when we left!!
The midwife didn’t seem concerned as my blood pressure was fine, so again, I’ll not worry about it!
I’m struggling with sleep, I fall asleep very very fast but I’m waking lots trying to get comfortable.
I had a scan this week and we were told that little guy is weighing about 2.4kg right now and will be on track to weigh right about the same as Arthur did, small but perfectly formed! Most importantly though he is very healthy in there!! It was amazing to see him! We got to see his face and we reckon he’s going to look just like Arthur!
So now there is only
Until we meet our Little guy (well actually it’s 2 weeks and 4 days as of today!!)
It’s also only 9 days until we go to Mahe so all very exciting!!
I have another midwife appointment next Thursday, my last one in Praslin! By next week we should be all ready, eeek still quite a lot to do!!
I’ll be back next week!