Win The War And Organize Your Kids’ Clothes

It’s hard enough organizing our own clothes sometimes. If you’re stuck with just a chest of drawers, finding space for everything can be a nightmare. Even if you’re lucky enough to have a walk-in closet, there can still be times when you wish you’d got more space. Add kids to the mix, and things really start to get interesting. Not only are kids inherently messy in their approach to life, but the amount of clothes they accumulate seems to be never ending.

Despite my kids having spent most of their time in just a pair of pants or their cloth nappies, I swear they still have more clothes than me!

We need a solution to all this clutter. Fortunately, there are things that you can do. Take a look at some of these kids’ clothes organization tips and transform your house from bomb site to serene Zen garden.

Win the war and organise your kids' clothes

Divide Up The Closet

 

There’s nothing worse than standing in front of a closet which clothes overflowing and all piled on top of one another. You can’t find anything. That’s why it’s such a good idea to install closet dividers. They are little pieces of plastic that hang onto the rail and allow you to separate out different types of clothes. What’s more, kids can use these dividers when they’re putting their clothes away, allowing them to separate out their t-shirts, pajamas, pants, hoodies and sweaters.

Put Extra Bins In Your Drawers

When drawers were invented, I’m certain the inventor didn’t have your kids’ drawers in mind. They probably thought that the average drawer would contain two items of perfectly folded clothing at most! Of course, this is nothing like what actually happens in the real world where pieces of clothing are just stuffed into drawers, and they are perpetually overflowing.

Although it’s not ideal, there is a quasi-solution to this problem: put bins inside your drawers. Bins are especially useful for drawers that contain odds and ends, like underwear, socks, hats and winter clothing.

 

Invest In A Shoe Organiser

Finding Belk promo code coupons and saving money on kids’ shoes is the easy part. Actually organizing those shoes is a heck of a lot more difficult. But fear not – there are things you can do. One idea is to invest in a closet shoe shelf. The idea is to line up shoes that your kids use most often on the shoe shelf and then pack the rest into boxes underneath. You’ll find that your children will often go months without using various shoes, like their winter wellies. So, these are best stored away where they can’t cause a mess in the summer. Another box could be for summer footwear, like flip flops.

 

Put All Your Kids’ Costumes On Display

Not all clothes need to be out of sight, out of mind. Some clothing actually helps to complement and even decorate the kids’ bedroom. We’re talking, of course, about superhero costumes, pirate flags, Spiderman hats and so on. Try hanging their costumes either on the back of the bedroom door or beside the bed on a rail. That way they can access them easily without messing up the rest of their clothes!

 

Help Kids Organise With Colours

What’s the first thing that kids learn to do? See, of course. And that’s why it’s so important to use colors to help organize kids’ bedrooms. Because they’re visual creatures, they’ll respond better to organizational cues that they can actually see with their own eyes.

 

So why not try a color scheme for where various items of clothing should go. Socks in the blue drawer, t-shirts in the green drawer, pants in the red drawer and so on. The great thing about using visual cues is that kids are able to tell colors before they’re able to read.  This means that you can get preschool children into good organizational habits from an early age.

 

Keep Some Clothes Within Reach, Others Out Of The Way

Because kids have an uncanny ability to create mess, it’s a good idea to look for ways to limit their capacity to do so. One of the ways you can do this is to create a two-tiered system in their bedroom: some clothes are within reach, and others are out of reach.

In practice, this means segmenting their closet into sections. Seasonal clothing should be near the bottom of the closet and be accessible in baskets, on rails or inside drawers. Then clothes which aren’t needed right now should be tucked away on top shelves, keeping them from being strewn all over the bedroom floor. Keeping all the out-of-season stuff out of the way means that kids can get directly at the clothes they need without making a mess.

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Stylish Summer Dresses via the Post

Stylish Summer Dresses via the Post

As you know we rarely travel back to the UK, but when we do, one of the things we enjoy is shopping. After being away for so long the thing that strikes you the most when you visit a British High Street or shopping centre is the scale of everything. There is so much choice. If you are not used to it actually feels a little overwhelming.

Here, on the islands, life is a lot simpler. Most of the stores are small, so choice is limited, but you can usually find what you want. We dress casually most of the time, but every now and again it is nice to wear something a bit different.

This is especially true if you have a special party to attend, so I have been online looking at the dresses, on this site. Having friends and family still in the UK gives me the option to buy something and have it sent over. It takes a while, and postage is expensive, but if I see something I really like it is worth doing.

stylish summer dresses via the post

Lightweight maxi dresses

There are some lovely dresses there, so I must admit to being sorely tempted. It is nice to see that t-shirt style maxi dresses are still in fashion in the UK. Most of the time you would be too hot wearing a long dress here, but some evenings it gets cooler. In that situation one of the nice lace style maxi dresses would be ideal for a special occasion. Soft, simply cut, and figure hugging they look really elegant, without being too formal.

For an evening meal, in a restaurant near the beach, a nice sleeveless cotton dress would be a practical option. There are some really lovely floral patterns available, which are simple enough to fit in with our beautiful islands unique style of dress.

Skater dresses

It is also good to see skater dresses coming back into vogue. For this climate, they are a more practical option. Most are cut just above the knee, so your legs are left bear, which really helps you to stay cool. The way the skirt flares slightly from low on the hip, which creates a particularly pleasing silhouette.

Flattering swing dresses

If you are looking for something that doesn’t sit so tight around your tummy, you can get a similar look by opting for a swing dress. This cut hangs a little looser, and has no defined waistline. Usually the folds start just below the breast bone, which means that the dress material skims over the stomach area. Unfortunately, most of the swing dresses I have seen online, this year, have long sleeves, so I doubt I will be ordering one.

Choosing the right style

If you are interested in shopping for dresses online, you will find this page particularly helpful. The article you will find there will help you to determine which cuts are best for your body type, and sense of style.

What’s your go to summer dress style?

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Crime In The Seychelles – A reflection on being the victim of theft.

Crime in the Seychelles

It’s been about a year and a half since I wrote the post The Darker Side of Expat Life In The Seychelles and it’s still the most viewed page on my blog.  I read it again the other day. It made me reflect on how I felt about being broken in to, and about crime in the Seychelles in general.

I thought I’d start writing those feelings down. I know that many of the people reading that post are researching if it’s safe to live in Seychelles and about crime in the Seychelles in general. Hopefully this post will give a bit more of a rational insight into how safe it feels to live here.

The original post was written a couple weeks after our house was broken in to while we were all asleep. Despite waiting those couple of weeks, I was still feeling very raw and vulnerable about it all.

At the time of writing I was wrestling with wanting to move from the house we were in. We have now moved. I must stress that the main reason was that Mark was promoted and we needed to be nearer to school. I was happy to move though, despite the house being made a lot more secure. When something like that happens it’s difficult to forget it. I was not sleeping properly and was paranoid about any person around. That would be the case wherever in the world it happened, of course!

crime in the seychelles

 

Is it safe to live on Praslin?

I feel safe here. If I didn’t feel safe we would have moved on by now, without a doubt. No matter how much we love it here, or how well Mark’s career is going, our family safety will always come first.

We are all living safer though, which is important. By that, I mean we are all more aware of keeping ourselves and our valuables safe. That seems a bit ridiculous to read. I don’t mean that we ever felt like we weren’t looking after ourselves properly, but we have certainly been guilty of living naively of the fact that crime existed.

At night I still wake up thinking I can hear someone in the house, I hate that. I don’t know if that will ever go away. Maybe it’s best if it doesn’t though. Perhaps living with that fear will help to keep us safe. I hope so.

Do I think expats are targeted for crime? In short, yes.  Someone did comment on the post saying that I was arrogant to think that (I chose not to publish that one!!!) I don’t think that all expats are targeted, it is a generalisation, and of course Seychellois are also victims of robberies too.

Crime in the Seychelles

Is there a safer side of the island?

We have been in our new house for over a year now and I do feel pretty safe here. There was a feeling at the time that the side we are living now is safer. Honestly, I don’t think that is the case. I know of break ins all over the island.
Sadly a house very near to ours was recently broken into. It was a reality check and a reminder that it can happen anywhere.

crime in the seychelles

What type of crime happens here?

I’m pleased to say that on Praslin (I don’t want to say for Mahe as I really don’t know!) I have not heard of any violent crime towards expats. There is very little violent crime at all. This definitely helps in feeling safer.

The main type of crime undoubtedly is theft. Mostly it will be for small easy to sell items such as hard drives, tablets, smart phones and jewellery.  Perhaps the saddest thing is that things stolen are mostly sold for drug money.

Drugs are undoubtedly, a growing problem here.  I’m told its worse on Mahe than Praslin.  I will say that it is, by no means, at the point where you can feel or sense that when you’re out and about.  I don’t ever feel unsafe when I’m out.  Of course, you wouldn’t want to leave valuables lying around anywhere, but that is no different to anywhere else in the world.

Will it happen again?

I spoke to Mark about this and if he felt it would ever happen again. Sadly, we agreed, the answer to that is almost certainly, yes.  The house we are living in is a lot more secure, and as I mentioned we live a lot more aware of the possibility of theft and act accordingly.  But, no house is perfect and we are not perfect.

We don’t live in fear of it happening again, we lead normal daily lives.  Now we just live with our eyes more open to the fact that theft happens.  We keep our valuables secure and have a bit of a routine to ensure that no doors or windows are left unlocked while we are out, or at night.  Nothing major, just normal sensible security.  We should have done it from the start, but I don’t mind admitting that I did love that little safe bubble we felt like we lived in for the first couple of years here!

 

 

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Things To Prepare For When The Baby Arrives

Things to Prepare For When the Baby Arrives

Having a baby can be an exciting time for everyone involved. However, there is also a lot of planning, preparation and anxiety that might also come into play. What needs to be done before baby’s arrival? How are you going to handle your current load of tasks? What will the baby be like?

Instead of working about everything together, it is strongly recommended that you take it one step at a time. By taking care of multiple things, you’re easily able to enjoy all that comes from having a baby and not the stress you feel about getting everything ready.

Here is a short list of things you should consider taking care of prior to baby’s arrival. This way, everything is set to go for that big birth day to come!

things to prepare for when baby arrives

Work Out Things with Work

Whether you’re the mother, or father-to-be, it is important to consider working with your place of employment. Setting a specific time off, come back date and other financial worries ahead of time can put everyone in the best mindset. Having this taken care of before the baby arrives also ensures that you’re not stressing or running around worrying about work and things that have to do with work.

Get Baby’s Items in Order

Making sure that you have everything for the baby when it comes home is also a big plus. You want to make sure you have enough diapers, clothes, wipes, a car seat, bed and so on for the baby. Having the proper breastfeeding or bottle feeding supplies is also a must along with the Best Sit and Stand Strollers of 2017 to get baby home. Generally, you may have a baby shower which is where you’ll get most of these things, but if you’re missing some items or if you didn’t have a shower then it may be time to head out and grab the necessities.

Clean Up the House

A lot of women tend to ‘nest’ which is when you clean every ounce of the home. This is something that you might want to do just to make you feel better, or something that you have to do before baby’s arrival. It is important to think about cleaning the big areas of the home where they baby might be. Clean the baby’s room, organize and put away everything. Go through a checklist of rooms while you clean to stay organized and make sure everything is where it should be.

Prepare Other Children

If you have other children, now is the time to think about preparing them for their new sibling. With this in mind, you’re going to want to think about being able to show them the baby and have them know what is going to happen. Babies take up a lot of the parent’s time, so preparing them for this new change is a good way to go. Make sure to let them know that they’re always welcome to help with the new baby and how special this is!

Consider Parenting Decisions

You and your partner should be on the same page when it comes to decisions. If this is your first baby, it is important to lay down these decisions before the baby comes and ask for help from you nurse during the first moments of your baby’s life. How do you want to feed baby, what do you want to do sleep wise, how is this baby going to fit into everything that happens within your lives? You need to have a clear plan as a parenting couple on what is going to be done and how it is going to be done.

Preparing for baby is a great way to prepare yourself for the long journey ahead. Enjoy parenting when baby arrives and congratulations on your new bundle of joy!

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Sleep is So Important for Children: Nail the Bedtime Routine

There are statistics that show that children, all over the world, are getting less sleep than ever before. This is an alarming trend which some devastating consequences. Not being able to concentrate and focus in school is just the tip of the iceberg. Tired children could develop behavioural problems. In addition, family lives become disrupted and parents become distraught and stressed. There are a number of reasons that children aren’t getting enough sleep. Take a look at this post to see what the problems are and how to solve them…

Why Aren’t Children Getting Enough Sleep?

Why aren't children getting enough sleep

 

 

It is recommended that those aged around three years old should have about 11 hours of sleep a night. This drops to 10 hours for ten-year-olds, and nine hours for 15-year-olds. Often children aren’t getting this amount of sleep.

 

Some of the most common reasons for this lack of sleep include poor diets, dependance on technology and parent working longer hours. All of these can contribute to the problem of poor sleep and have to be tackles.

 

How Can We Improve Our Child’s Sleep?

How to improve our children's sleep

 

 

One of the main things to do is switch off all electronics and hour or so before bed. You may think that watching cartoons or playing on an iPad is calming your child down, but it’s not. What technology actually does is keep us awake. Basically, the light that comes from the TV or your smartphone or computer disrupts the production of melatonin. Melatonin is a hormone which is released as the sun goes down. It makes us feel tired. This is part of the problem. The other problem is that children are becoming increasingly ‘addicted’ to technology. It’s difficult for children to switch off both mentally, and literally, from the piece of tech they’re using before bed. When they do tear themselves away their brains are still working overdrive and they haven’t calmed down.

 

Poor diet is another problem. If our children are eating the wrong things before, or too close to bed, they won’t settle. Avoid any sugary foods before bed. This will cause an energy spike and make them restless. Instead, a healthy balanced meal is best. Give your child time to digest before bed. This means they won’t be up during the night needing the toilet.

 

Another way to improve sleep is to focus on the small things. Make sure your child has a bath before bed. Hot soapy water is a great way to relax a child. In addition, it will make distracting them from screen easier. Once they’ve had a bath make sure you have comfortable pajamas for them to slip into. Kids Fendi have some great options which are soft on children’s skin and comfortable. Avoid anything too restrictive. Then read a story or have some quiet time before bed. No overly stimulating play or computer screens. Get your child into this routine so that they know it’s coming up to bedtime.

 

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A reflection on writing every day for a month

So, it has again been a little while!

I have finished my writing for Culture Trip, if you want to check out the posts I wrote for them you can view them here

If you missed that I was doing that writing, a little catch up.  I was contacted by Culture Trip and asked if I would write articles about the Seychelles for them. The commission was to write 30 articles in month.  This would mean me writing every day for a month, something I’d never done before.

I was delighted to take up the opportunity.  I knew it was going to stretch me out of my comfort zone but I felt ready for the challenge.

They use WordPress which I already use for this blog and so I knew Id be comfortable with the technical side of the writing.

I thought Id share my experience of writing every day for a month, the ups and downs!

writing every day for a month

How did I feel writing every day for a month?

This is something I didn’t think Id have to write about but honestly I found doing this hugely emotional.  Now looking back, I can see that it was really good for me, but at the time there were days when I found it so hard.

Getting real feedback on my writing was something I’d never really had before.  Having it critiqued I found pretty tough at the time.  After one article in particular I had a definite low point.  I felt not good enough, like I had bitten off more than I could chew.  After all I am not a ‘professional writer’ by trade, I don’t have any particular qualifications in it.

But then I had good days.  Days where I sat and thought, actually, who says I’m not a professional writer?  Ive been successfully blogging for 3 years and after all it was them who contacted me to write for them.  I can do this!!

 

What were the biggest challenges?

There were certainly plenty of challenges for me writing every day for a month.  Having a written commitment to something like this made me put a lot of pressure on myself.

I hadn’t expected to find challenges using WordPress, after all I use that already.   There were some things I had to get used to though with certain requirements of the company both in writing style and procedures.

The thing I found the hardest was getting good quality pictures.  Even with access to things like Flickr, Shutterstock and things like wiki images.  As it was for a business all images had to be copyright free and that was the challenge.

The last week of the commission, Mark was in the UK for work.  Honestly that week was terrible.  But, I got through it.  As soon as the boys were in bed every night I sat down at the computer and wrote for about 5 hours.  It sucked, but I did it!

 

What did I learn?

I really did learn so much from this experience.  Its only been a couple of weeks since Ive finished and I can already feel myself rose tinting it.

I learned that being a work at home mum is crazy!  I pretty quickly realised that I was only really going to be able to get anything done while the boys were asleep.  This meant that Monday to Friday while Arthur was at school I had two hours in the morning while Freddie napped.  Then I had the evenings.  Weekends were a bit more hodge podge in the day, grabbing time when I could.

Having a deadline was, despite the emotional rollercoaster, really good for my writing.  I found that I could get so much done being under time pressure. I became organised and did very little procrastination – Something I am terrible for when writing my blog!  Moving forward with any writing I do, I will certainly be putting deadlines on myself!

I really learned a lot about where I live!!  Its easy to get a little complacent sometimes, but there was plenty I learned while writing these posts and it has definitely inspired me to get out and learn more.

Reaching out to big companies is not so scary!  I was in touch with some really big name hotels and people who I would never normally have dreamed to have the confidence to speak to, and you know what?  People were really receptive to speaking to me, interested in what I was writing about, and helping me with information, pictures etc.  That was definitely a confidence boost.

I still have lots to say!  I am definitely guilty at times of feeling like I’ve lost my voice.  Blogging obviously does help that, but writing for someone else reminded me that I’m not just a Mum, that there is still someone who can work and get things done!!  *I definitely don’t think being a Mum ever deserves the ‘just’ but its a weird thing I do where I decide thats what people think about me since I don’t work!

 

 

The night that I finished my writing, I called my Mum and Dad.  It was around 10pm my time (6 in the UK) and I am not sure I have ever felt more proud of myself.  I had a celebratory rum while chatting with them – I am an island girl after all, so it really did have to be rum! It was a seriously tough month but I got there!!

What I learned from writing every day for a month
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Catching up and looking forward

Catching Up and Looking Forward

Hello,

its been a little while, sorry about that!

Lets Have a Little Catch Up!

There have been a few reasons for my absence!

We are very lucky here that Mark gets 4 weeks leave in December.  With Arthur now at school too that obviously means he has that time off too!  I try not to, but I also inevitably kind of down tools on the blog front over school holidays!

It’s also been the minor event that is Christmas!  I haven’t written a specific post about it, which is rubbish of me but we did have a great time!  It was the first year that Arthur really ‘got’ Christmas and it was so amazing to really see the magic through his eyes!  Freddie really enjoyed himself too!!

Seychelles Christmas. Catching up and Looking forward

We had Marks parents stay with us for two weeks, and so they were here for Christmas and New Year.   It was lovely to have family here over this time and definitely helped us all get into the spirit of things, which can sometimes be tricky when it’s so not Christmassy here at all!!

So now we are already over a week into 2017 and I’m finally writing my first post of the year!

Looking Forward & The Exciting News!

if you follow me on Instagram (if not, you definitely should be!!) you may have spotted that I mentioned I had something exciting coming up.

No it’s not a baby.

I have been commissioned to write for Culture Trip.  An online magazine style website helping its almost 3 million a month readers discover the world’s cultures.

culture trip

So this month I will be writing a bunch of different articles all about the Seychelles!

I am so proud of myself for this!  I would never have thought for a minute when I started this blog 3 years ago that I would receive an opportunity like this!

So, I will be shouting out on social media about this lots, so keep an eye out for when my posts go live!  Also, if you’re looking for travel inspiration or want to know more about a country you’re planning on visiting, you should definitely check out Culture Trip!

 

Having an opportunity like this, has made me evaluate my blog a little.  I, for now at least, am planning on taking a break from my monthly blog link up ‘my expat family’ .  It was taking a lot of my time.  Whilst I enjoy reading all the posts I feel it may have run its course a little.  Instead I will focus that time on writing posts.

I want to start writing updates on the boys again (I don’t know why I ever really stopped that).

I also want to ensure that I continue to share lots about Seychelles.  Information for people visiting, and an insight on our lives here.

 

There, I feel a little more up to date now!!

 

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