Arthur and Freddie April 2017

Arthur and Freddie April 2017

Its been a month, well yes it has been over a month.  But I thought I’d check back in with an update on the boys.  Last month’s update is here if you want a read

Its been a crazy month, Mark has been super busy in school, both of the boys were poorly for a couple of weeks.  We are definitely all very happy the Easter holidays have just started here nd can catch up on some much needed down time.

 

Arthur, aged 3 years and 9 months

Being poorly came at a bad time as his class had just started practicing for their school show. By the time he got back into school he just wasn’t up for it at all.  His class were going to be doing magic tricks and Arthur loved his little trick of making a ball disappear. He just was not cool with the idea of getting up on the stage, or being part of a larger production.  He even stopped wanting to go into school at all.

The day of the show came and Arthur had said he wanted to do it, I took him down for it and he got really scared and upset and didn’t even want to watch the show.  I felt so sad for him that evening.  It was a really tough parenting experience trying to figure out the boundaries of how far you should be encouraging and pushing them out of their comfort zone.

The next day in school he was happy as could be and they started preparing for his sports day.

I couldn’t believe that he was going to join in but he had an absolutely fantastic time – he did all the races and he really enjoyed it.  He was super proud of his medal at the end too.

Arthur April 2017

Arthur has also started to swim out of his depth!  We are so proud of the confidence he’s showing in the water!  He loves swimming, and its amazing that he’s now taken the step to go into the deep too!!  Of course, this does mean we are on extra alert watching him now but its a huge achievement!!

He has developed some serious sass in this last month, we are getting plenty of ‘I don’t like you’ and ‘This is Rubbish’. All in all though he’s still bloody cute most of the time – and still never forgets a please and a thank you!

Arthur April 2017

 

 

Freddie aged 20 months

Freddie was poorly at the same time as Arthur. I was starting to worry because he really wasn’t eating much at all.  Luckily, he has bounced back and is eating pretty well again.  He does have a serious sweet tooth though.

Freddie April 2017

It didn’t take him long for the little bit of shyness to break down with my Mum and Dad. He is just as besotted with them as Arthur is.  They couldn’t believe how strong a character he is.  Most of our Skype calls are taken up with Arthur, so it was really nice for them to get a chance to have some time with Freddie while Arthur was at school.  He certainly holds his own when they are together too!

Freddie has lots of words now, most of which are related to the Ocean! Fish, Whale, Shark, tocto (Octopus), Boat are all favourites.  He also has started to say Bye to things, mostly “bye fish” and “bye tree”

He loves ‘shooing’ birds, pointing out geckos, bugs, birds, cats, dogs and anything else he can find!  He’d spend all day every day outside if he could.  A true island boy!

Freddie is pretty sassy too.  He knows when he’s doing something he shouldn’t and gives a huge grin after!  I think we are in for some trouble with him as he gets older!

Freddie April 2017

Together

When the boys were sick I thought I would have a total nightmare with both of them at home.  I was really lucky that despite being poorly, they continued to be great together.

Then when my parents arrived I was certain that Arthur would be really possessive of them and not give Freddie a look in.  He yet again pleasantly surprised me.Arthur and Freddie April 2017

Freddie thinks Arthur is the best and wants to be doing everything his big brother is doing.  Arthur is still more than happy with having Freddie join in on his games too which makes me so happy!!

I took this picture after Arthur’s sports day.  There is lots about it that isn’t ‘picture perfect’.  Arthur is still in his sports kit, Freddie doesn’t have shorts on, and of course neither are looking at the camera.  But, I still love it!!!

Arthur and Freddie April 2017

We have one more week of Easter holidays together.  After that, its back to school for Arthur and work for Mark.  I’m enjoying every second of us being all together before the madness of school starts up again!

I’ll be back next month with another update!

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Things To Prepare For When The Baby Arrives

Things to Prepare For When the Baby Arrives

Having a baby can be an exciting time for everyone involved. However, there is also a lot of planning, preparation and anxiety that might also come into play. What needs to be done before baby’s arrival? How are you going to handle your current load of tasks? What will the baby be like?

Instead of working about everything together, it is strongly recommended that you take it one step at a time. By taking care of multiple things, you’re easily able to enjoy all that comes from having a baby and not the stress you feel about getting everything ready.

Here is a short list of things you should consider taking care of prior to baby’s arrival. This way, everything is set to go for that big birth day to come!

things to prepare for when baby arrives

Work Out Things with Work

Whether you’re the mother, or father-to-be, it is important to consider working with your place of employment. Setting a specific time off, come back date and other financial worries ahead of time can put everyone in the best mindset. Having this taken care of before the baby arrives also ensures that you’re not stressing or running around worrying about work and things that have to do with work.

Get Baby’s Items in Order

Making sure that you have everything for the baby when it comes home is also a big plus. You want to make sure you have enough diapers, clothes, wipes, a car seat, bed and so on for the baby. Having the proper breastfeeding or bottle feeding supplies is also a must along with the Best Sit and Stand Strollers of 2017 to get baby home. Generally, you may have a baby shower which is where you’ll get most of these things, but if you’re missing some items or if you didn’t have a shower then it may be time to head out and grab the necessities.

Clean Up the House

A lot of women tend to ‘nest’ which is when you clean every ounce of the home. This is something that you might want to do just to make you feel better, or something that you have to do before baby’s arrival. It is important to think about cleaning the big areas of the home where they baby might be. Clean the baby’s room, organize and put away everything. Go through a checklist of rooms while you clean to stay organized and make sure everything is where it should be.

Prepare Other Children

If you have other children, now is the time to think about preparing them for their new sibling. With this in mind, you’re going to want to think about being able to show them the baby and have them know what is going to happen. Babies take up a lot of the parent’s time, so preparing them for this new change is a good way to go. Make sure to let them know that they’re always welcome to help with the new baby and how special this is!

Consider Parenting Decisions

You and your partner should be on the same page when it comes to decisions. If this is your first baby, it is important to lay down these decisions before the baby comes and ask for help from you nurse during the first moments of your baby’s life. How do you want to feed baby, what do you want to do sleep wise, how is this baby going to fit into everything that happens within your lives? You need to have a clear plan as a parenting couple on what is going to be done and how it is going to be done.

Preparing for baby is a great way to prepare yourself for the long journey ahead. Enjoy parenting when baby arrives and congratulations on your new bundle of joy!

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